When you hear that now ubiquitous phrase i find that offensive you know youre being told to shut up social discourse is now dominated by competitive offence claiming but how did we become so thin skinned. When you hear that now ubiquitous phrase i find that offensive you know youre being told to shut up social discourse is now dominated by competitive offence claiming but how did we become so thin skinned this book blames three culprits official multiculturalisms relativistic conflation of tolerance with positive recognition narcissistic identity politics and finally therapeutic . When we find someone offensive we can avoid them and continue our lives with no damage done as for the claim that we are harmed by the mere existence of people who live in ways of which we disapprove mills response is that our interest in not being offended is relatively less important than our interest in not being physically injured detained or criminally deceived claire fox . Understanding generation snowflake i find that offensive september 2 2016 by carl r trueman claire foxs book i find that offensive is a well written important even brilliant contribution towards understanding the significance of current campus conflicts for society as a whole. I find that offensive 239 likes offensive clothing and merchandise for those with a sense of humor